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Grief and Loss, Bereavement Counselling in Singapore

Losing a loved one can be one of life’s most challenging experiences. Insightful Counselling offers professional grief, bereavement, and loss counselling to help you navigate this difficult time. We are dedicated to helping you heal and find peace through our compassionate approach.

What is Grief Counselling, and How Can It Help?

Grief counselling is a therapeutic process that helps individuals cope with the emotional, physical, and psychological effects of losing a loved one. It provides a safe space to explore your feelings and find ways to move forward.

Emotional Support: Grief counselling offers a compassionate space to express your emotions freely.

Coping Strategies: Counsellors help you develop healthy coping mechanisms to manage your grief.

Healing Process: The therapy aids in navigating the complexities of grief, leading to emotional healing.

How Does Bereavement Counselling Differ from General Therapy?

Bereavement counselling specifically addresses the unique challenges associated with losing someone close. Unlike general therapy, it focuses on helping you understand and process your grief.

Focused Approach: Bereavement counselling targets specific issues related to loss and grief.

Specialised Techniques: It employs techniques designed to effectively deal with the grieving process.

Supportive Environment: Provides a safe and understanding environment tailored to your bereavement needs.

What Can I Expect During a Grief or Loss Counselling Session?

Grief and loss counselling allows you to share experiences and feelings in a confidential setting. Your counsellor will guide you through the process using various therapeutic techniques.

Personal Sharing: You can openly discuss your thoughts and feelings about your loss.

Therapeutic Techniques: The counsellor will use specific techniques to help you process your grief.

Confidential Space: Ensures privacy and a non-judgmental environment for your healing journey.

What Are the Stages of the Grief Cycle?

What Are the Stages of Grief and Loss?

The stages of the grief cycle, commonly known as the Kübler-Ross model, include denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Understanding these stages can help you recognise that your emotions are a normal part of grieving.

Denial: The first reaction to losing a loved one is shock and disbelief.

Anger: Frustration and helplessness can manifest as anger.

Bargaining: Trying to find meaning or negotiate a way to reverse the loss.

Depression: Deep sadness and realization of the extent of the tragedy.

Acceptance: Accepting the loss and finding new positive ways to move forward.

How Can Understanding the Grief Cycle Help in Healing?

Understanding the grief cycle can offer valuable insights into your emotional responses and help you navigate your grief more effectively. It provides a framework for recognising and validating your feelings.

Insight into Emotions: Helps you understand and validate your feelings.

Navigational Tool: Provides a roadmap for what you might experience during grief.

Coping Mechanism: Knowing the stages can help you develop strategies for each phase.

What Techniques Are Used in Grief and Bereavement Counselling?
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Grief and bereavement counselling may incorporate various techniques to provide the most effective support. These methods are tailored to your individual needs.

– Talk Therapy: Provides a space to discuss your feelings and experiences.

– EMDR Therapy: Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing helps in processing bereavement, grief and trauma-related memories to move towards healing.

– Brainspotting Therapy: Targets specific brain spots related to emotional experiences for healing.

– Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT): Helps identify and change negative thought patterns.

– Mindfulness Practices: Encourages present-moment awareness to manage emotions.

How Long Does Grief Counselling Typically Last?

The duration of grief counselling varies depending on individual needs and circumstances. Some people may need support long-term, while others may benefit from short-term sessions.

Individual Needs: The length of counselling depends on your specific situation. Every person processes grief differently and at a different pace. There is no right or wrong.

Short-Term Relief: Some may find significant progress in a few sessions.

Long-Term Support: Others may require ongoing support to navigate their grief fully.

Can Grief Counselling Help with Long-Term Grief and Loss Issues?

Yes, grief counselling can be very effective for those dealing with long-term grief and loss issues. It provides ongoing support to help you process unresolved emotions and develop coping strategies.

Ongoing Support: Offers continuous help to manage long-term grief.

Unresolved Emotions: Assists in processing emotions that linger over time.

Coping Strategies: Helps develop effective ways to integrate the loss into your life.

How Do I Know If I Need Professional Help for Grief and Bereavement?
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Suppose you are struggling to cope with your emotions, experiencing severe or prolonged symptoms, or finding it difficult to carry out daily activities. In that case, professional help can provide the support and guidance you need.

– Emotional Struggles: Difficulty managing emotions may indicate the need for help.

– Prolonged Symptoms: Persistent grief symptoms can benefit from professional counselling.

– Daily Activities: If grief impacts your daily functioning, seeking help is advisable.

What Are The Benefits Of Grief Counselling? - Insightful Counselling

How Can Insightful Counselling Help with Grief and Bereavement?

At Insightful Counselling, our experienced counsellors offer compassionate support tailored to your needs. We use evidence-based techniques to help you navigate the grieving process and find a path to healing.


The right treatment and the rightly diagnosed therapy will help you feel better and stress-free. The feeling of the new life and new start will bring positivity in you.

How Grief Counselling Helps Person To Move On After The Loss - Insightful Counselling

Our Counsellors for Grief Counselling

Reena Goenka

Reena Goenka, MSc (Counseling), SAC Master Clinical Member: Specializes in trauma therapy. Her expertise spans childhood trauma, emotional distress, and experiences of physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. She is certified in EMDR therapy and Brainspotting, Flash Techniques, Hypnotherapy and she assists clients in processing and overcoming distressing memories, enabling them to break free from the chains of their past and embark on a journey towards a happier, more fulfilling life.

Yap Huay Khem

Huay Khem - Counsellor at Insightful Counselling SingaporeYap Huay Khem, MSc (Counseling), SAC Registered Clinical Counsellor: 
Known for her calm and nonjudgmental demeanour, Yap Huay Khem equipped herself with various modalities, such as EMDR/Flash Technique, Brainspotting, Hypnotherapy, and Transactional Analysis, to help clients to explore, aware and resolve their trapped issues and emotions, thus improve their well-being and handling behaviours.

Lily Ng

Lily Ng, MSc (Counseling), SAC Associate Member : With A Master’s In Counseling, Provides Empathetic Support For Individuals and Couples, Specializing In Relationship Issues, Work-Related Stress, Grief Counselling.

Insightful Counselling Case Studies for Grief

Success Case Study: Grief Counselling with Helen


Helen (Not real name to maintain confidentiality), a 34-year-old woman, was faced with an incredibly difficult situation when she learned that her unborn child had a severe medical condition. After extensive consultations with medical professionals, Helen and her partner had to make the heartbreaking decision to terminate the pregnancy for medical reasons. The emotional toll of this experience was profound, leaving Helen with overwhelming grief, guilt, and a sense of loss.

The Initial Consultation

When Helen first came to grief counselling, she was struggling to cope with her emotions. She felt immense guilt for making the decision to end the pregnancy and was haunted by thoughts of what could have been. She also experienced feelings of isolation, believing that others could not truly understand her pain. Helen expressed a deep sense of loss and was unable to find solace or peace.

Goals of Counselling

  1. Validate Helen’s Emotions: Help Helen understand that her feelings of grief, guilt, and loss were valid and normal.
  2. Provide a Safe Space: Create a supportive environment where Helen could express her emotions without fear of judgment.
  3. Develop Coping Strategies: Equip Helen with tools and techniques to manage her grief and begin the healing process.
  4. Address Guilt: Work through Helen’s feelings of guilt and help her find a sense of peace and acceptance.

The Counselling Process

In the initial sessions, the counsellor focused on building a trusting relationship with Helen, encouraging her to share her story and express her emotions freely. As trust developed, they delved deeper into Helen’s feelings of guilt, helping her understand that her decision was made out of love and necessity. The counsellor introduced various coping strategies, including mindfulness exercises, journaling, and guided imagery, to help Helen manage her grief and regain control over her life. As Helen progressed, the sessions shifted towards finding acceptance and peace, with activities like creating a memory box and writing letters to her unborn child, allowing Helen to honor her loss meaningfully.


After several months of counselling, Helen experienced significant improvements in her emotional well-being. She no longer felt overwhelmed by guilt and was able to talk about her experience without breaking down. Helen reported feeling a sense of lightness and peace that she hadn’t felt since the loss of her pregnancy. She found comfort in the memories of her baby and was able to move forward with a sense of hope.


Helen’s journey through grief counselling with her therapist highlights the importance of professional support in the healing process. By providing a safe and empathetic environment, validating her feelings, and equipping her with effective coping strategies, her counsellor helped Helen navigate through her grief and find a path to acceptance and peace. This case study demonstrates the profound impact that compassionate counselling can have on individuals experiencing traumatic loss.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I know if my grief is normal?

Grief is a highly individual experience and can vary widely. While some common symptoms include sadness, anger, and confusion, it’s essential to understand that there is no right or wrong way to grieve. If you’re concerned about your feelings, seeking counselling can provide clarity.

Can grief counselling help with sudden or traumatic loss?

Yes, grief counselling can be especially beneficial for those who have experienced sudden or traumatic loss by providing a space to process complex emotions and trauma in a supportive environment.

Can grief counselling help with sudden or traumatic loss?

Yes, grief counselling can be especially beneficial for those who have experienced sudden or traumatic loss by providing a space to process complex emotions and trauma in a supportive environment.

How soon after a loss should I seek grief counselling?

There is no set timeline for seeking grief counselling. Some individuals may benefit from immediate support, while others may seek help months or even years after their loss. It’s essential to reach out when you feel ready or struggling to cope.

Can grief counselling help me if I feel stuck in my grief?

Yes, suppose you feel like you are not making progress or are overwhelmed by your grief. In that case, counselling can help you explore and address these feelings, providing tools and strategies to move forward.

What should I look for in a grief counsellor?

Look for a counsellor experienced in grief and bereavement, has a compassionate and understanding approach, and with whom you feel comfortable and safe. Qualifications and reviews can also be helpful indicators.

Is online grief counselling effective?

Online grief counselling can be very effective, offering flexibility and convenience. It allows you to receive support from the comfort of your home and can be just as beneficial as in-person sessions.

Can grief counselling help with feelings of guilt and regret?

Yes, grief counselling can help address feelings of guilt and regret, providing a space to explore these emotions and work through them constructively.

How can I support a friend or family member who is grieving?

Being there to listen, offering practical help, and encouraging them to seek professional support are good ways to support a grieving friend or family member. Understanding and patience are key.

Contact Us

If you or someone you know is struggling with grief, bereavement, or loss, please do not hesitate to contact Insightful Counselling. Click ‘make and appointment’ now. We are here to provide the support and guidance you need during this difficult time.


Reena provided a supportive environment that encouraged me to open up and face my profound pain and sense of loss. She created a safe space where I could express my emotions without fear of judgment, allowing me to unburden my grief. Reena's presence and support as I reflected on my relationship with my husband were invaluable. This process helped me understand and release my pain, making way for me to cherish the beautiful memories and the love we shared once more.

Huay Khem is incredible! She made me feel truly understood and validated, like I genuinely mattered. Her way of speaking and her ability to see deep into your eyes and understand you is remarkable. I felt completely safe while we worked through my unresolved grief. Now, I have a newfound lightness in my life. Everyone should experience this kind of support!

Adeeti, is very patient, non-judgemental and empathic. She has been helping me overcome my struggles and also enable me to identify my strengths. She also helped to point out my irrational thoughts and guide me back on track. My family members also notice I had become more positive. Feeling grateful to Adeeti for her help.

  1. I am in my twenties and even though it is commonly known as a confusing time in life for many, I struggled with adapting, deteriorating my mental health. After many months of deciding to take on therapy, I took my first step and called insightful counselling. My counsellor Lily is extremely patient and gentle, taking the time to understand and work out my complex emotions and guiding me through exercises which I can practise at home to help me cope. I highly recommend Insightful and Lily's sessions to anyone, even if you just need a listening ear!

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