Hi Shri,
Hope you're doing well. I've thoroughly enjoyed the sessions we had since 10 June, and I wanted to express my gratitude towards you for the methods you have suggested for me. Looking back, I feel I'm the same person, but my point of view of things has positively changed.
Please find my heartfelt appreciation below:
At first, I thought going for counselling was an absurd affair when my friends brought up that I genuinely needed counselling then. Previously, I've had counsellors in school that were nice at first but later gave up on me, thinking that I am genuinely fine and no need for further attention for my issues. I was struggling with my own circumstances, I felt I had to navigate the real world on my own without much help from trusting adults was a difficult and confusing time for me. I had a breaking point where family and friends started to say that they don't understand me and I should not be feeling this way, I was so hurt by these notions that I eventually got numb to these 'seemingly okay' situations. All these had affected my psyche and health overall.
Meeting Shri felt like it was God-sent. He genuinely took the time to understand me and recommended healthy ways to manage these emotions. He has 'rattled my emotional world' in the right way that the 'dam' holding all these 'strong emotions' was broken down in a safe way rather than dropping a bomb to blast the dam away. I had ample time to sit through all these emotions, it was quite funny as well, I didn't know that I was genuinely angry and upset with a lot of things. I had an actual phase of listening to metal music everyday and buying a metal band shirt (Parents were horrified), however I genuinely felt free to express and that 'catharsis' was no longer held back. After that phase, I sort of cooled down and I was able to process my own anger, anxiety and fear at a healthy pace. I also threw away the metal band shirt to tell myself that I've seen my anger towards the world, and I'm ready to move on.
The methods that Shri recommended was going out in nature (The beach, Botanic Gardens etc.) to do grounding exercises, watching Spongebob, practising gratitude before bed and after waking up, and having a list of the things I can control and cannot control. Some of these methods I had heard before but I only felt that it was significant after carrying out these recommended actions. I think what worked best for me was going out into nature, walking in the sand and feeling the waves through my feet, and that made me feel I'm still part of the world and despite whatever I'm going through, it reminds me that I still have many things that I've taken for granted. I genuinely enjoy spending time in nature, and now I have to purposely make it a priority in my schedule.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you Mr. Shri. May your future ventures be a fruitful one.
Best Regards,
Jun