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Marriage Counselling

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Get matters resolved!

Rebuild your connection with your partner with our Marriage and Couple Counselling.

Communicating your needs is the key to boost the health of your relationships that has a direct correlation to your self-confidence, self-esteem, motivation, success, growth and, ultimately, happiness.Address problems like communication, abuse, divorce, living arrangements, addictions, child-care issues and more.

Empower your relationship today with Insightful!

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Pre-Marriage Counselling

It takes millions of moments to build a relationship, but just a slight misunderstanding to break it up. Now you have to choose between ultimately end it or give it a shot. We may help!

Pre-Marriage Counselling Services In Singapore

  • Marriage Preparation

    Premarital counselling helps couples contemplating tying the knot to prepare for marriage.

  • His needs/Her needs

    Understanding each other's needs, unmet needs and how to fulfil them ensures a step towards a happy marriage

  • Financial Management

    Exploring financial belidfs that each partner has as these beliefs can be a source for significant conflicts in future

  • Exploring marriage fantasy

    Each partner has a fantasy about marriage and thir expectations from tying the knot.

Marriage Counselling & Couple Counselling

Beginning a life together can bring across many challenges which we don’t see upfront. Things could get heated and both parties may be confused on what each person wants. Here at Insightful, we empower your relationships!

Marriage Counselling: Relationship Counselling Services In Singapore

  • Improved communication

    Helps improving the communication and interaction amongst each other

  • Empowered relationship

    Rebuilds and empowers your relationship with your partner

  • Perspective changed

    Helps you understand and realize the different perspective of your partner in a better ways

  • Increased empathy

    Helps you with taking a look at any matter with an empathy or understanding point of view of your partner

Meet our specialists

Reena Goenka

My Specialities:
Clinical Supervisor & Mental Health Trainer, EMDR Certified Therapy, Brainspotting Therapy & Transactional Analysis

Kesava Kumaran

My Specialities:
Addictions, Family Therapy, Youth Counselling
Yap Huay Khem - Counsellor At Insightful Counselling

Yap Huay Khem

My Specialities:
Childhood Trauma, Brainspotting Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Family Therapy

Adeeti Jain

My Specialities:
Couple & Marital Therapy; Parental Counselling; Family Therapy

Who We Are

Insightful Counselling is one of the leading mental health and wellness centres in Singapore, offering professional counselling and psychotherapy to children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families.

Insightful’s services are all-inclusive and we do not discriminate. For us every client is a cry for help.

Our forte is Couple counselling, Past Life Regression therapy, Trauma therapy and Parenting.

Mental Health Counsellor- Insightful Counselling Singapore

How Will Insightful Help?

Insightful Counselling, Singapore makes sure comforting you to discuss out even the most intimate and private moments of your lives, where the main cause may have ignited. With a therapy and repeated talking sessions Insightful helps you understand each other and the different point of views you have.

Why Choose Insightful?

Insightful Counselling based out of Singapore, understands that even though you are a couple and need a session together, but, at the same time you both are two different individuals with a totally different attitudes and perspectives towards life, and hence we ensure that you both get the unbiased listening ear and a platform to air your issues.

Get Back The Happy Family You Missed

Understanding comes with love and respect between the couple, it is something that cannot be taught. But with Insightful you will understand the need of understanding. With regular sessions you will witness

“Prevention is better than cure”

Premarital counselling helps couples to recognise their strengths and areas that will need work. Therapy helps to recognise weaknesses and differences in beliefs that can create issues in the marriage in future. Premarital counselling helps identify areas of development. Premarital counselling can be compared to a person going for a mental health check-up to ensure everything is fine. Counselling helps to address many different topics like children, sex, parenting styles, faith, finances etc.

Premarital counselling puts in motion the concept of communicating and airing the issues. It’s not about resolving all issues.

  • Uncover Marriage Expectations
  • Understand the belief each brings into marriage
  • Recognising the past that comes with you as part of marriage
  • Learn to make healthy choices in your relationship
  • Learn effective communication styles and conflict resolution techniques
  • Collaborate for healthy financial choices around money
  • A platform to air about your intimacy values and beliefs with each other
  • Understand each other’s perspective about children
  • Identify your weaknesses that can trigger problems in future.

There is no one-size-fits-all approach to determining when to seek couples counselling, as every relationship is unique. However, certain signs can indicate that professional help may be beneficial in strengthening your relationship. By paying attention to these signs, you can address issues before they escalate and prevent the development of destructive behaviours that may jeopardize your relationship. Here are some common signs that you and your partner may need marriage counselling:

1. Communication Challenges

Effective communication is necessary for maintaining a healthy relationship. If you find yourselves struggling to communicate effectively, whether through frequent arguments, yelling, or silent treatment, it may be time to seek professional guidance. Couples therapy can improve communication, conflict resolution, and relationship satisfaction.

“It’s not uncommon for couples to feel as though they’re having the same argument over and over again.” – Dr. Adam Borland, Clinical Psychologist

2. Emotional and Physical Intimacy Issues

Lack of physical or emotional intimacy can significantly impact a relationship. If you feel disconnected from your partner or notice a decline in passion and affection, couples counselling can be instrumental in revitalizing your bond. Through therapy, you can explore strategies to reignite the spark, improve emotional closeness, and address any underlying issues that may be affecting intimacy.

3. Trust and Infidelity Concerns

“Trust forms the foundation of every successful relationship.” When trust is broken, whether it’s due to lies, secrets or infidelity, it can be extremely difficult to regain. However, couples counseling offers a secure and confidential environment where trust issues can be addressed, and the reason of the breach of trust can be explored. This can help in working towards restoring trust and rebuilding the relationship.

4. Major Life Transitions

Life transitions, such as having a baby, losing a loved one, moving to a new home, or changes in employment, can put a lot of strain on a relationship. Couples counselling can assist you in managing these transitions together, creating coping mechanisms, and ensuring that you and your partner remain connected and supportive during times of change.

5. Substance Abuse or Addictions

Addictions, whether to drugs, alcohol, gambling, pornography, or other problematic behaviours, can strain a relationship. Seeking couples counselling can provide a supportive environment to address addiction-related issues, facilitate open and honest conversations, and explore treatment options. It can also help partners understand the underlying causes of addiction and develop strategies for recovery and healing as a couple.

6. Growing Apart

Over time, couples may find themselves growing apart, losing sight of shared values and interests. This can lead to a sense of disconnection and dissatisfaction in the relationship. Marriage counselling can help you and your partner rediscover common ground, reestablish shared goals, and reignite the passion and friendship that initially brought you together.

7. Financial Conflicts

Financial conflicts are a common source of problems in relationships, and can have significant impacts on communication, trust, and overall satisfaction. Seeking couples therapy can provide a platform for honest discussions about financial values, beliefs, and expectations. It can also help couples develop effective financial management strategies, promote teamwork, and reduce financial stressors.

8. Parenting Challenges

Raising children can present unique challenges and place strain on a relationship. Couples counselling can help parents work through parenting differences, improve communication, and develop strategies for effective co-parenting. Partners who tackle parenting challenges together can create a harmonious and supportive environment for their children, while also strengthening their bond as a couple.

9. Contemplating Separation or Divorce

If you or your partner are thinking about separating or getting a divorce, couples counselling can provide guidance and support during this difficult time. Although therapy cannot guarantee that the relationship will work out, it can help both partners gain insight, explore their feelings and make informed decisions about the future of their relationship. Therapy can also help make the transition to separation or divorce healthier.

Couple therapy is the best way to give a new start to your relationship and heal the cracks on time. Sometimes it’s just a matter of speaking up and have a deep healthy conversation between the couple.

  • Uncover Marriage Expectations
  • Resolve your trust issues, and sexual problems
  • Understand the root cause of the conflict between the two
  • Get rid of the little or in some cases even bigger misunderstandings
  • Resolve communication issues

At Insightful Counselling, Singapore, our qualified and experienced therapists work with you to ensure you benefit from counselling. Marriage counselling can help to resolve issues between you and your partner in a civilized and productive manner.

  • Helps to establish a proper communication channel
  • Understand the root of the issues
  • Build a stronger connection
  • Resolve issues you face

Divorce counselling involves both partners attending the sessions. It is usually short term counselling. This counselling can be either pre-divorce or post-divorce. A divorce may have a breakdown in communication channels. A counsellor or a psychotherapist will assist in working through different disagreements and facilitating the concerns each spouse has about issues related to divorce. They can include a multitude of topics like

  • Custody of children
  • Co-parenting issues
  • Facing complex emotions like anxiety
  • Financial issues
  • Property related conflicts

The rate of divorce continues to rise, and counselling can help their clients heal from the trauma of divorce. Divorce has profound and long-lasting emotional distress.

Unlike couple counselling, where partners usually try to save a marriage, divorce counselling involves sessions to facilitate divorce proceedings.

Increased dissatisfaction with the marital relationship can lead to separation and divorce. Divorce involves taking many decisions related to lifestyle, finances, parenting, custody, and more. In addition, it is emotionally traumatic as there is a loss of a relationship.

Divorce counselling facilitates decision-making, working through grief, regulating emotions, and establishing identity as a separate person. In addition, counselling assists the person, couple, and family make the necessary adjustments to establish relatively satisfactory post-divorce lifestyles.

Helps process feelings connected with change like hostility, anger, sadness, depression, low self-esteem
Facilitates to understand the loss of identity a person may feel
Empower a person to move from social isolation and abandonment to autonomy and social inclusions
Supports through the painful journey of separation, stress and life-changing events
Facilitates co-parenting decisions
Therapist helps to rebuild the crushed self-esteem

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