“There is no more lovely, friendly and charming relationship, communion or company than a good marriage.” – Martin Luther
Research states that premarital counselling boosts the successful marriage rate by 30%.
Everyone has their own needs and a need to feel complete. One big motivation for marriage is to find fulfilment of these needs in each other. Premarital counselling helps the couple explore their needs, compatibility, and what they will bring into marriage. A clarity helps strengthen the foundations of marriage and leads to fewer conflicts and divorces.
“Prevention is better than cure”
Premarital counselling helps couples to recognise their strengths and areas that will need work. Therapy helps to recognise weaknesses and differences in beliefs that can create issues in the marriage in future. Premarital counselling helps identify areas of development. Premarital counselling can be compared to a person going for a mental health check-up to ensure everything is fine. Counselling helps to address many different topics like children, sex, parenting styles, faith, finances etc.
Premarital counselling puts in motion the concept of communicating and airing the issues. It’s not about resolving all issues.
Our family therapists, Adeeti and Huay Khem bring in their experience to help you and your partner in preparing for your marriage. Their priority is building a therapeutic alliance and helping bring a variety of topics to air like finances, beliefs and values, roles in marriage, dealing with respective families, children and role of parenting and so much more. Both help to align your marriage goals to achieve a happy and successful marriage.
Understanding comes with love and respect between the couple, it is something that cannot be taught. But with Insightful Counselling, Singapore, you will learn to communicate your beliefs, values around different issues like children, money, intimacy, and strengthen your marriage foundations.